function pop_it(the_form) {
   my_form = eval(the_form)
   window.open("wait.php", "contact", "height=80px,width=250px,menubar='no',toolbar='no',location='no',status='no',scrollbars='no',directories='no',resizable='no'");
   my_form.target = "contact";
   my_form.submit();
}